Twelve Tips for travelling India with kids

Many people may have raised an eyebrow, but you did it. You’ve decided to take the kids travelling to India! Perhaps memories of your India travels pre-kids have lured you back. Or perhaps you’ve travelled much of South East Asia as a family and you’re now looking for a new challenge. Or perhaps it’s just a place you’ve always wanted to explore, seen other families doing it, and you’re willing to take the plunge.

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India is not for the faint hearted and kids can drive parents insane on a daily basis. So how do you not lose your sh!t travelling India with kids? You may want to read our post: Travelling India with young kids – is it worth it?

We’ve been living in India for 3 months now and our travel adventures with a 2yo and 3yo have been a learning curve. Here are our top tips. Many of which I need to be reminded of on a daily basis.

1. Go up a notch with your accommodation choice
India is chaotic. To balance this, you need to ensure the place you stay is an oasis away from the chaos. This will give you all a breather and much needed time out. Look for somewhere that includes aircon if travelling in the hotter months, and breakfast, so you haven’t got to head out early with hungry kids.

2. Consider all the family sleeping in the one bed
This may sound like the worst idea for many parents. However, many hotels in India are happy for young kids to share a bed with parents. This often means that you can get a better hotel for your budget. We would always prefer to stay in a nicer hotel with a pool and balcony if it means sharing a large double-bed, rather than a finding somewhere with a standard family room and no frills.

3. Take your time and allow down time
Especially in the big cities, traffic has to be seen to be believed. Getting from A to B always takes longer and the worst thing to do is try to hurry along your kids as they very rarely comply. Similarly, don’t rush through destinations. India can be a sensory overload for adults, let alone young kids. Travel slow, take your time and allow downtime EVERY day.

4. Hand sanitiser and washing feet
It’s easy to get hung up on the dirt in India. It’s everywhere and unless you only go to high-class hotels and shopping malls, there’s no escaping it. Kids love touching everything – the walls, their feet, high-fiving strangers – there’s no stopping them unless you turn into a neurotic parent, which is no fun for anyone. Kids will be kids. Just have the sanitiser handy before meals and get into the routine of washing feet whenever you get home. Thankfully we have been free of any serious illness these past three months, which we consider quite the miracle! Touch wood.

5. Omlettes, rice and naan bread
Our kids don’t like the spicy food. Most Western kids don’t. We try them with a little bit now and again, but we’re not going to force it on them. However, as parents we LOVE our curries and we selfishly don’t want to go without. At most Indian restaurants you can get them to make a plain omelette or plain rice (although make it clear that ‘plain’ means no spice, no salt, nothing) and the kids always devour naan bread. In most touristy places you can get pizzas and chips, sometimes pasta, and there’s always a fruit stall nearby (stick to fruits you peel – bananas are always a winner!) And here’s a little travelling parent secret… McDonalds is okay sometimes πŸ˜‰

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6. Eat where the food is moving
When eating out with kids, it can be tempting to go to a quiet restaurant where your little darlings won’t bother anyone. This can be a mistake as the food is unlikely to be fresh and they’ll probably take longer to prepare your food – which means more time keeping the kids happy whilst sat at a table. Eat at restaurants that are busy with locals. It’s a good indication that the food is fresh and moving.

7. Drink only purified water
Water sanitation is a big problem in India. Even if you get water from a nice restaurant, ask for bottled water. You just can’t trust what comes out of the tap, especially for little tummies.

8. Book train travel as early as humanely possible
Trains get booked up almost as soon as tickets become available (120 days before departure). If you were without kids, you would be fine bunking down in Sleeper class on an overnight train. However, this isn’t really advisable with young kids. We always tend to travel 2AC.

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9. Keep your cool
India can be frustrating to the outsider. There are processes in place with checking into hotels, visa checks, booking tickets, and however non-nonsensical they may seem at the time, rules cannot and will not be broken (unless it involves driving on roads, no one follows any rules there!). Add to this that seemingly everyone wants your tourist dollar, it’s easy to lose one’s cool. It’s easier said than done, but at the end of the day it may just be easier to pay that little bit more, go with the flow or just walk away. Do you really want your kids to see you lose your temper with someone?

10. Learn to say no to photos
Within days of living in India, our boys were over the selfie requests. They had had enough. That doesn’t stop people coming up to them, grabbing them, picking them up and posing. Be firm, Β polite and just say ‘No’. They may object, but as soon as you explain that it’s your child saying no, they more often than not leave you alone. Though be warned, that they will still be snapping away at you and your family as you walk away.

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11. Respect the seasons
India is a country of extremes and the weather is no exception. In summer months, temperatures can soar to mid-40s and the monsoon season makes some destinations almost impossible. Plan your travel for the milder months and your family travelling life will be much more comfortable. The time to visit most of the country is November through to March. Escape the summer heat and retreat to the mountains between July and September.

12. Pack a thermos flask
Getting hold of boiling water to heat milk can be a challenge. It’s nearly impossible to get hold of on the trains and many hotels don’t provide a kettle. However, you can always find someone (either at your hotel or a restaurant) willing to prepare you some boiling water. If you have a good thermos flask, it will keep your water hot for a good 15 hours or more.

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31 thoughts on “Twelve Tips for travelling India with kids

  1. afamilydayout

    Lovely to discover your blog. I first visited India 25 years ago when I stayed a month with my pen friend (those were the days!) in Bangalore. We’re still in touch (via FB) but I’d imagine that Bangalore has changed beyond recognition. No skyscrapers when I visited! Not sure I could afford to take the family to India but one day I’ll go again….#farawayfiles

    1. I love that you visited your pen friend! And you’re still in touch –
      wonderful 😊. Bangalore will most certainly have changed since you were last here. India can be very cheap to travel, it’s just the flight to get here – so maybe you’ll be able to return sooner than you think 😊.

  2. Sometimes a “tips” post like this can give a clearer impression of what a destination is really like than even the longest descriptive essay. I have never been to India (let alone with kids…) but this has allowed me to paint a vivid picture in my mind of the wonderful, frustrating, memorable, challenging feast for the senses that travelling in India must be. Really enjoyed this – cheers! #FarawayFiles

    1. Thank you for reading. That’s so true! I’ve never really thought of that. I hope I don’t put anyone off, although it’s good to be realistic and know what to expect in India. India certainly awakens the senses πŸ™‚ #FarawayFiles

  3. Clare Thomson

    These are absolutely fantastic tips.Having spent six months in India I can absolutely relate to the daily frustrations, sensory overload, heat, hygiene concerns and people staring at you all the time. It is a truly wonderful place to travel but you do need to think about all this. I’m a huge advocate of slowing down and enjoying the experience rather than rushing around when we travel and this is doubly true in India. I’m really hoping to take my two to India soon and these tips will be incredibly useful when planning our trip. Thanks for sharing on #FarawayFiles

  4. India is almost the antithesis of our sanitised western lives so I think it would be an incredible place to take kids. But you’re right. A bit of planning and consideration will be paid back in spades. I am sure you are going through litres of sanitiser! Not sure I could share a bed with my little wrigglers though! thanks for joining #FarawayFiles

  5. I completely agree with your points. I’ve not taken the girls there yet, but I found you really need to slow things down when there. At first, I thought the traffic was utter chaos but after a few days, it kind of made sense. It’s such a vast, colourful country with so much to offer that I can’t wait to return! Thanks for linking up to #familytraveltips

    1. When you do bring the girls here, I think it will really help that you’ve experienced India before. If anything, you’ll know what to expect. It’s funny how you do gradually get used to the noise and chaos. The boys sleep through all the honking easily!

  6. I think the color, chaos and culture of India would be mesmerizing especially for my western teenagers. Great tips and tricks, although probably NOT sharing a bed with my teen boys who are taller than I! Thanks for sharing with #FarawayFiles, Erin

  7. Wow, what a brilliant post. Some amazing tips and such a down to earth approach to eating which makes the whole thing a bit more accessible for people who are nervous about heading to India with children. I have also just read your ‘story’ page and it’s so inspirational, makes me want to get out and explore the world with mine! Thanks for linking up to #familytraveltips
    Nat.x

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  11. Jenny, I am literally going to print this list, hang it up on our fridge to make my hubby consider a trip to India. It just seems like a country that one needs to visit and through your blog and reviews I am now realizing I do not need to wait until the little one is a teenager before we can embark on this journey. Thanks for participating in the Bebevoyage Linkup.

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